Pam Farrel and her husband, Bill, are co founders and co directors of Masterful Living, an organization that provides practical insights for personal relationships. The Farrels are also regular relationship columnists. As coauthors their books include Men Are Like Waffles—Women Are Like Spaghetti, The 10 Best Decisions Every Parent Can Make, Every Marriage Is a Fixer–Upper, and Red–Hot Monogamy. In addition Pam has written Fantastic After 40! and The 10 Best Decisions a Woman Can Make. The Farrels have been married nearly 30 years and have three children and a daughter–in–law.