In What Is He Thinking? Rebecca St. James, a well known advocate for purity in relationships, interviews men she respects who hope to get married some day. The interviews she conducted with single men ages 20-35 asked pointed questions such as, "How can we help you with physical boundaries?" and "Is neediness a turn-off?" In the book she shares their views on male/female relationships and intersperses words of wisdom from other respected men in her life - her father, pastor, and life coach.